School
Tie Magazine - November 1999
EDITORIAL
The
Managing Committee is pleased to present this issue of School Tie. Response
has been excellent from India and abroad, made easier by the Internet.
“The
old order changeth, yielding place to new….” Thus wrote Lord Tennyson. The
Managing Committee has seen some recent changes, with long serving stalwarts
such as Reza Najam-es-sani, Rohinton Pavri, and Behram Shroff stepping down to
allow ‘younger blood’ to take up the responsibility. Their contribution to
the formation, growth, and development of the Alumni Association is greatly
appreciated by all of us. Fali Mehta stepped down as President with Adil Irani
taking his place. A warm welcome
to the new inductees in the Managing Committee – Dinesh Advani, Kavi Desai,
and Rahul Divan.
Adil
Irani
Deepak
Mehta
Bimal
Goculdas
St.
MARY’S UPDATE (1999)
The
School now has a well-equipped Gymnasium, with the latest equipment for keeping
the students slim and trim and help them exercise themselves, through their
‘work out’ sessions for all sports.
In
the field of sports, the U-16 cricket team reached the Quarter Finals for the
Giles shield after a gap of 10 years. The
U-14 cricket team, too, made it to the quarter finals.
Our
boys won the interschool debates of ICSE schools at the Zonals and qualified for
the Nationals in Bangalore. The
Alumni Association awarded the participants handsomely.
In
football, the U-16 made it to the finals in the ‘A’ division.
The U-10 team unfortunately against lost in the Finals.
However, the enthusiasm for football has not decreased and the sporting
spirit is still very visible. Adrian
Mascarenhas deserves special mention as he created a new record in the 100
metres hurdles (14.3 secs.) at the Junior Athletic State Meet at Sangli and
represented Maharashtra in the All State Junior Athletic Meet at Cuttack.
Our ace swimmer, Rehan Poncha bagged several State and National awards
but unfortunately, had to leave us to complete his school career in Bangalore.
The
interaction between alumni and our students has been very commendable.
The Alumni Association organized Career Talks in their field of
specialization, which were deeply appreciated.
The cricket and football matches on the school grounds brought alumni and
students together to revive the Marian spirit.
The
following staff members viz. Ms. N. Waghmar, Ms. A.D’Mello and Ms. Sheila
Serrro have retired after a long innings at St Mary’s.
May God be with them in their new environment and time of retirement.
90%+
19
80%+
34
70%+
45
60%+
21
50%+
07
TOTAL
126
APPEARED 126
PASSED 126
CONGRATULATIONS
TO ALL OUR STUDENTS!
UPATE
1999-2000
The
football season has almost come to an end and it’s cricket now.
Incidentally, our U-16 football team emerged as runners-up in the
Division ‘A’, Mumbai Schools’ prestigious football tournaments.
Cricket
coaching is in full swing and soon the boys will begin their matches for the
Harris shield.
The
Annual Sports’ Day has been scheduled for November 19 or 22, pending
availability of University Grounds, Marine Lines.
I
take this opportunity to express my sincere appreciation and gratitude to the
Alumni Association for their valuable contribution to the school in so many
different ways, inspite of constraints of time, etc.
THE
SECOND JESUIT ALUMNI/AE NATIONAL CONGRESS
I
was privileged to attend the Second Jesuit National Alumni Congress, together
with Mr. Robert Lawrence, a member of the Executive Committee as representatives
of the St Mary’s alumni Association, at St Xavier’s College, Calcutta, from
January 22 to January 24, 1999. There
were almost 400 delegates present from all parts of the country, including our
neighbours, Nepal. The Congress was
inaugurated by His Excellency, the Governor of West Bengal and the keynote
address was delivered by Mr. Siddhartha Ray, a renowned Jesuit Alumnus and an
eminent lawyer.
The
Bombay and Western region (Gujarat) contingent made a significant impact at the
Congress and not only will the next National Congress be held in Mumbai in 2001,
but the Jesuit World alumni/ae Congress too, will be hosted in Mumbai in 2003.
Fr.
Evarist Newes, S.J.
Principal
the
Association has been fortunate in receiving relatively more support for its
activities in the last 12 months or so.
An
Alumni V/s School Football Match was held in September 1998 in which the former
put-up a spirited display but were beaten 3-2 literally in the last minute;
however, some of the oldies are still nursing their injuries!
An
Alumni v/s School Cricket Match was organized in October, 1998 in which Ketul
“Kadi Pehelwan” Patel (1984) (managed to get many a overthrow from the
school team by walking half-way down the pitch and also the guy with the
camera), Mihir “Jhavda” Jhaveri
(1984) (stood 6’ 3” and did not need to wear an abdo guard as no one
could bounce the ball that high), Robert “Panther” Lawrence (1972) (fielded
like a panther in the covers), Sunil “One Ball” D’souza (1972) (he got out
on it almost dislocated his shoulder and the batsman’s head), Media
“Boxer” Jalali (1972) (so generously provided the trophies that were
presented to the school players), Masoodi “Cool” (1972) (was the coolest guy
on the team), Shyam “Balsi” Balsekar (1984) (actually lasted out for more
than one over much to the surprise of every one) as also the Vice President Mr.
Paul Machado (a nippy bowler) and the Computer Master Mr. Melbon D’silva (a
nippy bowler) participated on behalf of the Alumni.
A pleasant time was had by all. By
& large, the Alumni team did reasonable well despite their advanced years
and lost with just 3 balls to spare. The
Association presented the trophies with Kaustubh, Adil & Mayank (the
Captain) of the School Team duly winning the ‘Best Batsman’, ‘Best
Bowler’ & ‘Man of the Match’ awards respectively.
Sushil
Sukhwani, Bimal Goculdas, Shyam Balsekar, Behram Shroff, Dr. Hemant Sawnani
& Sunil D’souza of the Association conducted a Vocational Guidance Talk at
the School in November 98 in which various career options were
outlined/discussed. There was
encouraging participation from the St. Mary’s Boys and the Alumni had to
contend with some rather penetrating questions. Fr. Evarist was very supportive as usual.
The
Annual Dinner was advertised extensively and turned out to be a grand success.
While there were a few hiccups pertaining to the arrangements, the same
have provided food for thought with regard to the planning for the next Dinner.
The
erstwhile PTA of St. Mary’s School (ISC) [they have had themselves ‘wound
up’ recently] has been generous to this Association and we would like to
record our thanks to all the people concerned at the P.T.A. on this account.
These funds shall stand the Association in good stead while carrying out
its charitable activities.
The
Association was also fortunate in receiving permission from the Director of
Income Tax (Exemption) Mumbai that exempts donations received by the Association
from the payment of Income Tax under Section 80 G of the I.T. Act 1961; this
status should provide a further fillip to the Association’s activities in the
near future.
Deepak
Mehta
1998
ANNUAL DINNER REPORT
The
dinner on Friday 20/11/98 was a milestone in the history of our school. It was
the largest gathering of alumni till date with appx 725 of us there. The
previous best attended dinner was 425 people.
Despite
a higher price at the gate yet 80 people came in at the last minute. The live
band didn't really take of and similarly the recorded music as the mike was
being grabbed by the enthusiastic Marians to make all sorts of speeches etc. Ft
Evarist picked out the Lucky Winners for the 2 BA Bom - Lon Return Air Tickets
and several other prizes. In fact there were over 50 prizes to be distributed
which resulted in dinner being served late and it becoming more of a prize
distribution than a dance, but all the Marians were least bothered about the
announcements and just continued to have a good time. People were really loosing
control over emotions meeting old friends after so many years.
The
dinner was a Parsi Menu and was finally jumped on by all those after having
their fair share of beer. There were Bun Chops and Kheema Gutli for starters.
There
were souveniers such as a Golf T-shirt as well as a polo neck, both in white
with lovely colorful logos ( I'll try to put a picture on the next mail for
orders) an Umbrella, School Badges and Ties, some old sweat Shirts and some
School Publications on sale too. Marians and their better halves were caught
walking through the hallowed halls and the grounds narrating fond memories from
their school days.
The
managing committee was in all extremely satisfied with the dinner and invites
comments from those who attended. For those who didn't make it there, we would
like feedback on the webcast.
We
unfortunately did not get a count of how many were there from respective batches
so I invite those who know, to share it with us along with any suggestions on
how to have a better function next year. I know that from my batch ( 85) there
were 13 guys. On behalf of the Alumni Association I'd like to thank each and
every one who attended for making it a memorable evening and especially to Fr.
Evarist for making the event possible.
Sushil
Sukhwani
I
stand here all alone. The silence frightens me as I am held transfixed, unable
to move. The darkness shrouds all there is to see, and even as I grope around
blindly, wildly a calm pervades my very soul, and I begin to see with my mind's
eye.
Its
all there. Just as it always was. The tiles glistening in the light, slippery as
an eel. The awesome pillars bearing the burden of an entire building sagging
just that little bit with age but yet not ready to give in. The stone platform
where the assembly was conducted. There it is the passageway on the right, that
dreaded place where the staff-rooms were housed. Its all there, just as it
always has been, and then all of a sudden there I see him. All alone, fumbling
with a rubber ball at his feet. I stand there amazed by the little boy as he
juggles the ball with his feet, dribbles 2 unseen, non-existent opponents, sets
up a goal and shoots. Bravo. He calmly collects the ball and goes through the
motions again. and again…and again…and something in my heart longs to speak
to him and then he sees me and he knows.. he just does… just as I do…
After
all I would recognize myself anywhere…. And memories of those days tumble into
my head….the day I first became a member of that great institution… no it
was something more than just a school, it was an attitude… a way of life.
I
remember my first few days. A shy, reserved boy was accepted willingly and
included in everything by everyone, right from the class gossip to the games of
mud wrestling we enjoyed then. I remember those hours of practice I put in alone
in the morning so that I could be proficient at that one sport everyone
played…. Football…. I soon learned that working with a smaller ball helped
me dribble and control the bigger football better ….. I made it that very year
to the school team…
Wait
its fading.. there's someone else there in his place… An older looking more
mature boy slowly walking along the corridor.. deep in thought…or wait.. is he
thinking or is he memorizing something….right then he looks at me.. and
smiles….just as I do… There I was in the 7th and 8th … probably conjuring
up the worst possible fate I would have to suffer at that very days English
Elocution Competition, my very first….. God how could I let him talk me into
it…… I still remember the stage, the blinding lights ….. the huge audience
and the fear… yes, the fear more than anything else….. I don't remember
speaking but I did win a prize at that competition….winning a prize at
something I thought I could never do… I guess all I really needed was someone
to make me believe in myself…to see what I could not…. I remember competing
in many other competitions…. Sometime winning, sometimes losing but more
importantly always daring to participate….. I still remember that thrill….
The applause.. the celebrations and the upsets but most importantly the lessons
I learned from all of these….and I remember that boy who goaded me, and begged
me, and threatened me… all this to show me my true self…my true potential…
yes, I remember him….so well….
And
as I look up to catch just one more glimpse of him he's gone, and I wander along
in that labyrinth of corridors…as sure as a bee in its hive…. After all i
did grow up there.
There
he is again…. no longer the shy, unsure bespectacled boy he once was, but one
who was confident… so sure of his abilities and talents.. How he had
changed…. For the boy who was too scared to dare to the young man who dared to
something new all the time…
There
he was talking gently to a boy of about 9 or 10… his words seemed to be
soothing the boy…. As I drifted in closer I heard him saying ," You have
it in you, you just don't know it yet… I remember myself so much as
yourself…unsure…all I needed was someone to see what I could not.. to make
me believe… Today I can see what you cannot and the time has come for me to
continue that tradition…. So sacred to all us Marians, the tradition of
believing in ourselves…. The tradition of leading… so go forth…that stage
in your battleground… the battleground on which you shall taste victory.. a
triumph over your lesser self…..".And I walked away before he spotted
me… he had learnt his lessons well the lessons so lovingly taught to him by
everything around him… by all the events that marked his life at that school.
He would grow up to be just like me I thought. As I wandered out of my school a
tear came to my eye… yes he had grown up to be exactly like me…
10
Words That Don't Exist, But Should
1.
AQUADEXTROUS (ak wa deks' trus) adj. Possessing the ability to turn the bathroom
faucet on and off with your toes.
2.
CARPERPETUATION (kar' pur pet u a shun) n. The act, when vacuuming, of running
over a string or a piece of lint at least a dozen times, reaching over and
picking it up, examining it, then putting it back down to give the vacuum one more chance.
3.
DISCONFECT (dis kon fekt') v. To sterilize the piece of candy you dropped on the
floor by blowing on it, assuming this will somehow 'remove' all the germs.
4.
ELBONICS (el bon' iks) n. The actions of two people maneuvering for one armrest
in a movie theater (airplane).
5.
FRUST (frust) n. The small line of debris that refuses to be swept onto the dust
pan and keep backing a person across the room until
he finally decides to give up and sweep it under the rug.
6.
LACTOMANGULATION (lak' to man guy lay' shun) n. Manhandling the "open
here" spout on a milk container so badly that one has to resort to
the 'illegal' side.
7.
PEPPIER (pehp ee ay') n. The waiter at a fancy restaurant whose sole
purpose seems to be walking around asking diners if they want ground
pepper.
8
PHONESIA (fo nee' zhuh) n. The affliction of dialing a phone number and
forgetting whom you were calling just as they answer.
9.
PUPKUS (pup'kus) n. The moist residue left on a window after a dog presses its
nose to it.
10.TELECRASTINATION
(tel e kras tin ay' shun) n. The act of always letting the phone ring at least
twice before you pick it up, even when you're only six inches away.
Pranav Mulani
Sujeet
Shenoi (Class
of 1976), associate professor of
computer science at The University of Tulsa, has been named the 1998-99 U.S.
Professor of the Year for research and doctoral universities by the Carnegie
Foundation for the Advancement of Teaching.
Shenoi
was selected for the national award from among 191 professors representing the
category of research and doctoral institutions across the country. Three other
professors won in the categories of community colleges, baccalaureate colleges,
and master’s universities and colleges.
Shenoi
and the other professors were honored by the Carnegie Foundation at an Oct. 8
luncheon in the nation’s capital for their "extraordinary dedication to
undergraduate teaching, commitment to students, and innovative teaching
methods."
Jai
·
DO
YOU KNOW REHAN PONCHA!
I
thought i'd let everyone know about this chap Rehan Poncha of our
school. He's a great
swimmer. At various inter club
events he won 13 golds,2 silvers and 8 bronzes setting 2 new records. at the
YMCA inter school competition he won 3 3 golds,1 silver medal and set 3 new
records. at the Maharashtra State
National Selections he won 2 golds,3 silvers and 1 bronze setting 2 new records
-at the Greater mumbai state selections he won 1 gold,3 silvers and 1 bronze
setting 1 new record.
At
Nationals he won 2 golds and 3 silver medals and bettered 1 national record.
-was selected to represent india at the asia pacific age group meet held
in Taiwan where he won 2 bronze medals. To
date he has won 59 golds,82 silvers and 49 bronze medals in various competitions
Sudeep the dude
NEW
DELHI, SEPT.26. Mr. V. Sampathkumaran and Mr. Sunil Mukhi (Class of 1972) from
Tata Institute of Fundamental Research (TIFR), Mumbai, are among nine scientists
who have been selected for this year’s Shanti Swarup Bhatnagar award – the
nations highest award for science by the Council of Scientific and Industrial
Research (CSIR) here.
The
two share the prize in physical sciences for their outstanding work on condensed
matter physics and string theory respectively.
By
Deepak Mehta from the Hindu, 27/9/99
So-called
environmentalists these days are clamouring for a ban on plastics. These people
have little knowledge on the subject, which, as the saying goes, is dangerous.
Several accusations have been hurled at plastics, the majority of which I
will deal with here.
Myth
no. 1: Plastics cause pollution
In
fact, the truth is quite the opposite. Firstly, plastics last much longer than
other materials and hence waste disposal is reduced. Secondly, plastics are
excellent low-cost insulators e.g. polystyrene insulation for refrigerators,
hence reducing electricity consumption and consequently pollution. Thirdly, PVC,
the most common plastic, contains 50% Chlorine which is obtained from naturally
available salt. This saves finite materials like oil.
Myth
no. 2: Plastics are unsafe
The
main example cited here is that plastic bags can suffocate children. True, I
accept. But which foolish parents allow toddlers to play with plastic bags
unattended? It’s the same as calling for a ban on kitchen knives because
children kill themselves with those! Plastic bags are not designed to be toys.
Once you respect that fact, plastics are as safe as any other household object.
Myth
no. 3: Paper is eco-friendly compared to plastics
For
all those supporters of paper, I would like to ask: What is paper made from? The
answer is ‘trees’. Global deforestation is a major issue today which
plasto-phobes seem to ignore. Plastics can be recycled just as well as paper. In
fact, 99% of PVC is recycled in the United States.
Myth
no. 4: Plastics are poisonous because they contain Chlorine
There
are over 2000 Chlorine compounds found in nature. Approximately 30% of all
medicines contain Chlorine. It is a question of how you use these products.
Scientists estimate that half of all known chemicals, whether they contain
chlorine or not, whether they are natural or not, can cause cancer in high
doses. There are over a thousand
chemicals in coffee. Only twenty-six have been studied so far, of which fourteen
are carcinogenic to animals in high doses. It is important to note that the
level of dosage is far more important than the chemical itself.
Plastics
are an essential commodity which we cannot do without in our daily lives. Can
you imagine a hospital without surgical gloves, blood bags, or IV tubing? What
better material could we use to make raincoats? The uses are many, and growing
every day. As educated citizens in a developing country, we should take a
complete view when faced with hype from ill-informed environmentalists. Having
vested interests, they spread half-truths which are taken as gospel by a
well-meaning society intent on preserving the environment. It is essential that
we continue to use plastics in the manner they are designed for.
I
would appreciate feedback from readers with similar or opposing views.
Bimal
Goculdas
I
remember myself chanting this
slogan quite a number of times during my years spent in St Marys.
Why?
Because Its the truth.
May
it be the field of sports, academics or extracurricular activities we were
always the best.
I
was never really a great student but I did my work and got through with
flying
colors.
My
main achievement was on the
football field.
I
represented this great school of ours for six years.
Even
if we did not win, we did not go down without a fight.
The
do or die attitude is what separates us Marians from the others.
We
never did one thing , which I am really proud of.
We
never lost to Campion.
St
Marys is the only school where I have seen Men being made out of boys.
The
Marys way has taught us to succeed and never accept failure as a setback.
I
still remember the plaque outside
the school office.
" AN OPPORTUNITY IS ST. MARY'S GIFT TO YOU.
WHAT YOU DO WITH THAT OPPORTUNITY IS YOUR GIFT TO ST. MARY'S "
I
really miss my school and try to return to it as many times as possible.
I
miss my teachers , I miss those beautiful grounds, I miss football
practice
at 7 in the morning. I miss it all.
The
following are the names of some of the people I would like to thank
for
putting me where I am today.
really
liked her ),Mr Dhananjay Khade, Mrs Elizabeth Ninan, Mrs Olga Nazareth, Mr
Ignatius
D'souza,
Mr Sheikh, Late Father Castale, Father Austin, Father Berkie,
and many more. The list continues.
"ST
MARY'S
BOYS HURRAH WE ARE ST MARY'S
BOYS."
Harish
Phadke
WEBSITE
FEEDBACK
·
Just
got to know about this great service to mankind (read
Marians).Like to hear from all CO73 whereever you are. Not too many news
about us floating on the site. Gear
up guys and keep in touch:
Juzer K. Golwala
·
Hi
! It is really great to touch base again with school days. Thanks and good luck
to the person or persons who took on the responsibility and the challenge to
start the website. I have now got confirmation that Mr Dyer is no more. He was a
great teacher. Studying him smoke and play cards and spending time with us in
the lunch interval to solve the daily Times of India Crossword is something I
will remember. I can from browsing so far gather that most of the people who are
registered are mostly day-scholars. It looks like I and my other 3 brothers
(hope to get them registered soon) who live in Australia are the only few
boarders who can haunt the web site. Therefore I welcome a response from any and
all boarders before and after 1968 to touch base with news of how life has fared
with one. I am going to visit India from 7th to 31st Oct 1998..would love to
meet anyone who remembers me and the good old days ! best wishes
Thomas
Fernandes
·
You
may not know this, but I used to play for the Soccer, Hockey and Basketball
teams in my time at St. Mary's. I also won the school championship in Athletics
in 1962. Good to hear the boys are still sports mad and doing well. Look forward
to further news. Keep well. Cheers,
Bill
DeMello
·
By
the way, your site on Mary's ISC is really great. Even though i was from across
the road: it was nice to go through it. Seen a lot to warm the heart. Thx to U,
Samant is on my desktop now to whistle away my blues. Thanks again. Keep up the
good work. By the way, always wanted to know: What did U ISC boys think of us;
SSC boyz? Curious.
Kenn
ST.
MARY’S VILLA (KHANDALA)
Those
of you who remember the good times you had at St. Mary’s Villa in Khandala
there is some great news. The Villa has been completely refurbished and is open
for reservation by any one interested. As
you all know the pristine location offers a great weekend get away, within two
hours drive from Bombay. Self
contained rooms are available at Rs.215 per head per day including breakfast,
lunch and dinner. Dorms are also
available at Rs.250 per head per day. For
reservations and other details, please contact between 9 am to 12 noon:
St.
Mary’s School ISC, Mazagaon Mumbai 400 010. Tel:
3778265/3730068
FOOTBALL
FEVER
One
of the most vivid memories that I have about school was the inter-house football
finals that we played during our 9th & 10th Std. (1984/85). There was enough
football being played every monsoon - the inter class, inter house, and if you
were good enough, the inter school (those were the days that cricket was still
second to football). There were
times that some teams were far superior to the other, and you had a one-sided
game (which was always good for the ego of the winning side), but when you had a
fairly even game, that is when the excitement started.
One
such time was the 2 finals (played in successive years) between the White House
and the Green House. Both were even sides with the White having Reza in forward,
Rahul Divan in mid-field, Green having Viraf Dumasia (no one could catch up with
him - our only hope was that normally he ran faster than the ball!!), and Samir
Bahl. The twins Greg & Gary were also one-a-side. In fact, most of the
school team was represented there.
The
first year, after a grueling 90 minutes, the scores were drawn at 1-1. There was
no concept of the "golden goal" and after another 30 minutes - the
agony of penalties. The Green House won that
year.
Revenge
came the next year. Same finals, the same teams nearly the same players. Again
the scores were tied after full-time and after extra-time. This time after
penalties, the White House came out on top.
Thinking
about it now, I wonder how we used to have the energy to attend all classes,
play football, do your HOMEWORK (there was no getting away from that), and then
go to school again the next day. But just the feeling of standing in the middle
of the big field, slight drizzle against your face, and the knot in your stomach
that always comes before the start of a big game. I could do anything to relive
those days again !!!
Presents
ANNUAL
DINNER ’99
Date
:
10th December ’99
Time
:
7.30 p.m.
Venue
: St Mary’s School (ISC),
Senior School grounds, Mazgaon, Mumbai.
Tickets
: Rs. 200 per head.
Come all you Marians with your better halves and have a ball with lots of prizes to be won. Umbrellas and T-shirts will be available at the dinner. Like last year the dinner will be telecast live on the Internet.
The
above prizes are sponsored by a small group of St. Marians.
If anyone else wished to sponsor please call any of the below mentioned
Committee Members. Invitations for
the function are available with persons and places mentioned below:
Name
Residence Tel.
Office
Tel.
Adil
Irani
3628565
-
Sushil
Sukhwani
3670486
2003055
Noshir
Dastur
2845565
2661734
Fali
Mehta
3871298
2671566
Deepak
Mehta
3862705
4376281
Khoorshed
Doctor
3616783
4935211
Robert
Lawrence
6430763
4926183
Shyam
Balsekar
4923084
3095381
Ajay
Parikh
4981811
2651632
Medhi
Jalali
3670597
2614278
Bimal
Goculdas
3630709
2061393
Dinesh
Advani
3646709
3631311
Kavi
Desai
3693145
Rahul
Divan
3679564
2660216
The
Principal – St. Mary’s School (I.SC.)
3778265
3778264
Dhunji
Sah & Sanghi, Kemps Corner
3803423
Aptech
– New Marine Lines
2003055
Shalimar
Hotel, Kemps Corner
ERRATA:
In last year’s School Tie, we had published an elegy for the late Kenneth
Dyer. It was brought to our
notice that there were several errors. We apologize for this and are attaching
a corrected version of the same.